Don´t censor your children´s dressing, if they are happy wearing it.
Same with their way of thinking. Social media, school, T.V. and society, already do that.
Enjoy your girlfriend´s way of dancing. If it is exciting, don´t get jealous when strangers stare at her. Just take her home and make love instead.
What are the limits of control, then?
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Being a control freak makes people angry and anxious. Wouldn´t it be better to go with the flow of life and just trust the trustworthy?
I know, some things get out of control from time to time.
Like binge eating and watching Netflix.
But just a little bit… Don´t be too hard on yourself.